An instance of caregiver isolation

I thought I’d share an example to illustrate a situation where caregivers are unable to speak up honestly about their problems and get support.

We often hear of how we must love the patient, and if the patient is a parent, how we must love the parent as the parent loved us, and how we must do things for the parent as the parent did things for us. Yet there are assumptions here that no one questions, and situations where care is challenging because of problems caregivers cannot talk about.

But first, about families.

I know families where parents were abusive towards spouse and children. They drank, they beat the wife and kids, they would not let the children study. Broken homes, broken bones, broken hearts of small children. The children somehow managed to make their way through their lives in spite of the negativity in the home, in spite of the beating and drunken torture, the neglect, whatever.

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