Past tense and kadhi pakodi

A funny thing happened at one session where I was discussing dementia challenges with some caregivers.

We were all talking of problems typically found, and I was sharing some anecdotes of mine, some mistakes, some solutions. There was one gentleman caregiver who was in a bad state, desperate for solutions of how to handle his father. He was sharing his problems and listening to what others were saying, making notes.

At that moment, someone who knew me well asked me about how my mother was doing, and as I began describing, this gentleman interrupted me with a shocked expression.

“Wait,” he said, “you mean she’s still alive?”
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